1. Say Yes (Even When It’s a Maybe)

This is the CORE of my matchmaking philosophy: things happen when you say yes. Yes to that BBQ, yes to the birthday party where you only know one person, yes to the coffee date that doesn’t sound perfect on paper. What happens when you allow for possibility & not perfection to lead the way?

2. Ask Your Spark Crew

You know who they are – those three people in your life (the connectors!) who light you up and know quality when they see it. This week, ask them directly: “Will you put me in a room with someone kind, interesting, and single?” You don’t need a million matches. You just need to be in more rooms.

3. Flirt at the Farmer’s Market

Summer markets are one of the last places where people are relaxed, offline, and open to small talk. Flirt tip: comment on what someone’s buying or ask for a recommendation. Eye contact, a smile, and a curious question still go a long way.

4. Talk About What You Actually Want

A 2025 dating trend worth noting: emotional availability is in. For ALL genders. People are looking for partners who know themselves and can say what they want – yes, even about sex, touch, and connection. Next time you’re flirting, try saying one honest thing about what you’re looking for. Vulnerability is powerful.

5. Try a Soft Start Instead of a Swipe

This year’s big shift? Less app fatigue, more slow love. Think: shared playlists, co-working meetups, walking dates, game nights. If apps aren’t working, change the format, not the goal. Focus on building warmth before intensity.

Summer isn’t over. The right moment (and person) might still be around the corner but it starts with you showing up differently. Say yes. Ask for support. And let people see the real you.