As a matchmaker, I often get asked how to navigate social events while making meaningful connections. With my dating event happening just last night, I saw so many people putting these tips into practice—and it made such a difference in how smoothly the evening flowed. Whether you’re heading to holiday parties, singles events, or any social gathering, these strategies can help you strike the perfect balance between being present in the moment and making the most of your opportunities to meet others.

Attending an event with the intention of mingling is an exciting chance to expand your social circle and potentially meet someone special. But let’s face it—while it’s important to stay present and invested in each conversation, there’s also a desire to meet and connect with a variety of people. Striking that balance can feel tricky, especially when you don’t want to seem dismissive or abrupt.

That’s why I’ve put together these five polite and warm ways to wrap up a conversation and move on to meet others:

1. “It’s been so nice chatting! I’m going to say hello to a few others, but I hope we can talk again soon.”
   This keeps the tone positive and leaves the door open for future conversations.
2. “I’ve enjoyed this conversation! I’m going to refill my drink, but let’s catch up later.” 🥂
   This is a natural transition that shows appreciation for the interaction while gently excusing yourself.
3. “It’s been wonderful meeting you! I’ll let you enjoy the rest of the evening, but I’d love to stay in touch.” 📱
   This approach is perfect for ending the conversation on a high note while exchanging contact information.
4. “I just spotted someone I need to thank—hope you enjoy the rest of the event!”
   A practical excuse that conveys politeness and respect for the time you’ve shared.
5. “I’ll let you mingle, but it’s been great talking. Hope to see you at another event!”
   This is ideal for group gatherings where you’re likely to cross paths again.

A Note of Caution
Last night, I witnessed a moment that highlights the importance of being honest while navigating conversations. One guest told a guy, “I better get going,” but then continued chatting with the hosts and matchmakers. To avoid the awkwardness of being caught in a fib, she had to leave the venue entirely to uphold her word. This situation could have been avoided by simply moving along without making up an excuse. It’s okay to keep things simple—there’s no need to overexplain or bend the truth.

Each of these phrases keeps the vibe friendly and warm, making it easier to transition without leaving anyone feeling slighted. Last night, I noticed how these small but impactful gestures allowed guests to confidently navigate the room and truly enjoy the experience of meeting new people.

If you’ve got holiday events or singles gatherings coming up, give these tips a try! They’re perfect for creating authentic connections while keeping the energy light and fun.

Do you have a go-to way of wrapping up a conversation at events? I’d love to hear your tips—feel free to share them in the comments below!